Transform Your
Strong-Willed Son's Behavior
With Encircle: For Moms (& Dads!) of Boys Who Want To Raise Connected, Cooperative, and Compassionate Sons
Do any of these sound like you?
- Your son overreacts to the smallest triggers, making it hard to respond to him.
- Your son ignores you, doesn't cooperate, lies, or gets aggressive when he's mad.
- Rewards, consequences, and house rules don't motivate your son to hurry up and listen - putting you constantly behind schedule.
- Your son lacks empathy, and you're wondering if he needs a diagnosis (or a different one)
- You're tired of repeating yourself, losing your patience, and being ignored.
- You've read a ton of parenting books but nothing seems to work.
...And do any of these sound familiar?
- You feel alone because your partner and you aren't on the same page.
- You're worried your son will have social problems later if he doesn't shift his behavior now.
- Your son struggles to control his impulses or regulate his emotions.
- You think therapy might help but don't know where to begin.
- Your son can't communicate how he feels or he brings others down with him when he has big feelings.
And do you find yourself exhausted, overwhelmed, and at your wit's end, feeling lost and unsure about what to do?
You're not alone.
As a fellow boy mom, I've been where you are.
I understand the frustrations, the repeated efforts that seem to go unnoticed, and the constant battle guiding our intense, persistent, and sensitive sons.
But we have great news for you:
There's a solution that can transform your son's behavior so he can thrive...
Introducing...
ENCIRCLE: FOR MOMS (& Dads!) OF BOYS
For raising a compassionate, cooperative, caring, connected, creative son who will grow up to be an incredible man.
Created by renowned parenting coach and boy mom expert, Rachel Sklar.
With Encircle Group Coaching, you can break the cycle of meltdowns, aggression, and negative behavior.
IT'S POSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE WHAT MATTERS MOST AS A PARENT...
- Empower your son to achieve better outcomes at home, school, and socially because he's more confident and cooperative in all he does.
- Raise an emotionally intelligent son who can handle big feelings without resorting to fighting, lying, aggression, disrespect, or running away.
- Regain your patience, calmness, and mindfulness during any parenting challenge, so you don't have to succumb to fear, grief, or guilt.
It’s time to be supported to show up as the parent you want to be.
Imagine this life...
Which are you seeking?
- Your son is responsive, flexible, and meets expectations.
- Your home is joyful, calm, and peaceful.
- Your family relationships are drama-free.
- Your house rules are clear and respected.
- Your son has empathy and respect for others.
- You have effective tools to handle tough behaviors.
- You are confident in your approach.
- You have a healthy balance between parenting, work, and life.
- You can stay patient and mindful during any breakdown.
- You are free of fear, guilt, and grief.
- You and your parenting partners share a simple approach.
- You know how to recover from any parenting mistake.
- Your son can handle his big feelings without fighting, lying, being aggressive, disrespectful, or running away.
- Your close relationship with your son is forever.
"I haven’t felt this capable in my parenting of my strong-willed child probably ever. I’ve been getting a lot of emotional support and benefits as well, from Rachel and [her community]. I think the biggest benefit for me is solidarity, and the feeling that I’m not alone in these parenting difficulties. I like having a fresh lens on my child and his behaviors, as well as feeling like I can take a more objective look at my own behaviors as well."
Natalie, 2 boys
"Nobody is born with an instruction on how to be a parent. It's a process. And as with every process, having guidance, community, and support makes it easier, more effective, and, oh my, so much more enjoyable. Encircle program gave me just this. And so much more."
Julia, 2 children
Rachel Sklar, Founder of Encircle, is Trusted By...
Here's How Encircle Works:
Private Launch Call & Customized Plan
Ditch the one-size-fits-all approach. You'll get a private session with Rachel to understand your unique situation and create a tailored plan for your family. (For Sustain Plan clients only)
Weekly Group Coaching Sessions
Each week, Rachel meets with the group to unpack their latest breakdowns and coach parents on how to handle any situation with their son. She customizes each approach while teaching new methods.
Weekly Encircle Moms' Meetings
This is an intimate space for moms to connect, create community, and get support around topics they may not feel comfortable sharing with the larger group. Moms-only meetings take place weekly.
Monthly Encircle Dads' Meetings
Dads meet monthly with Rachel to get coaching in a closed container. They share their challenges more honestly and get feedback on how to navigate tensions at home and be great role models.
Accountability Partners
Rachel will pair you with another member or a small group of parents who are in the same boat and can remind you to stay the course. This is optional but highly recommended.
Private Facebook Group
Connect, get support, and ask questions any time of day. Rachel co-moderates this group with graduates of the Encircle program. Many parents consider this group a lifeline for their parenting.
Monthly Seminars & Guest Experts
Rachel uses humor, storytelling, and honesty to teach you how to raise boys with confidence and compassion. She also hosts authors and field experts to teach about topics chosen by the group.
The Portal
All meetings are recorded and accessed via an online portal or phone app. While you'll receive lifetime access to the recordings, you don't need to attend every meeting to get the full value of the program.
ENCIRCLE IS DIFFERENT THAN ANY THERAPY, BOOK, OR TRAINING COURSE OUT THERE...
This program is not about just trying to fix the boy, instead, it teaches moms and dads how to build a strong, trusting, and collaborative relationship with their sons.
Unlike therapy, the Enircle program offers support between sessions to help you implement what you're learning and practice the tools.
Books and training courses tend to offer a one-size-fits-all approach that does not account for the unique needs of children and their parents.
Encircle offers a personalized approach tailored to each parent and boy's specific needs.
Encircle's techniques and methods are backed by science and have been proven to be effective in improving parent-son relationships, developing emotional intelligence, and reducing even the most challenging behavior.
Encircle stands out from other options because it offers a personalized, research-backed approach that addresses the needs of both parents and sons, and offers ongoing support from an experienced coach.
I'M RACHEL.
As a mom of 3 strong-willed boys, I spent my first few years as a parent lost, confused, overwhelmed, and quite frankly, ashamed that despite my background in psychology and social work and helping other parents, I was totally failing as a mom.
Of course, all of that changed when I pursued my parent coaching certification and multiple accreditations since then, but more importantly, I learned what makes strong-willed boys tick and how to parent them effectively.
I am proud to say that today I have an incredibly strong bond and unique connection with each of my sons, and I have helped 1000s of parents to create a strong bond and unique connection with their sons (and daughters!) too.
Our strong-willed sons think, behave, and are motivated differently than other children, and it's my personal mission to change the world, 1 boy at a time by helping parents understand their sons and learn how to show up as a connected parent and as their son's strongest advocate.
As a coach, speaker, educator, and mom I know what works, what doesn't, and what it takes to customize a plan that's right for every boy.
"I would recommend Rachel to anyone who feels challenged by raising kids who push limits and continuously act in defiance. After working with Rachel, there is less yelling and arguing with our teenagers."
Nancy, California
"Finding Rachel was like a breath of fresh air. Talking with her is a great balance of letting off steam and getting practical tips that actually work! The days after I connect with Rachel are by far the easiest ones I have with my kids."
Jodee, New Jersey
"Nobody is born with instruction on how to be a parent. It's a process. And as with every process, having guidance, community, and support makes it easier, more effective, and, oh my, so much more enjoyable. Encircle program gave me just this. And so much more."
Julia, Poland
Meet Alexis
I'm a mom of 2 boys, both of whom could definitely be described as "strong-willed".
Like most moms, I'm doing the best I can. But sometimes that doesn't feel like quite enough.
Enter Rachel.
Over the course of several sessions, Rachel helped me to better understand the underlying dynamics in my family and to identify areas where I could influence or shift those dynamics.
She also helped me to understand the needs and motivations of each of my kids, and how I could improve our relationships by changing my own behavior and how I interact with my kids.
She gave me valuable scripts that worked like literal magic, and which I still use to this day. Her focus on increasing connection to strengthen relationships, even when your instinct is the exact opposite, worked wonders for my family.
Rachel is supportive, non-judgemental, an expert in her field, and an absolute joy to work with. I'm so grateful for Rachel.
"This program has given me the skills I needed (so very badly) to help strengthen my relationship with my twin boys and improve our connection immensely."
Melissa, 9 y/o twin boys
"I'm loving this program! I'm learning so much about how boys communicate in ways I didn't understand before, how they connect and how they DISCONNECT from us. I've already connected more with my son and can see the benefits."
Mia, 12 y/o boy
"Throughout the Encircle Boys program, Rachel gave me concrete ideas about how to connect with and support my son. After each session, I was able to implement what I learned and my relationship with my son blossomed."
Leah, 2 boys
ENROLL TODAY!
Everyone’s journey is different. Find the right package for you:
The Scholarship & Solidarity Option
Let's work together to change this world one boy at a time...
We offer scholarships for families that don't benefit from current and historical financial privileges.
Let's talk if:
- You're a single parent trying to make ends meet
- You don't have access to regular, affordable healthcare
- Your family income doesn't allow for any savings
- You'd be willing to share your parenting wins and struggles on video
"Having this program as part of my life and schedule keeps parenting and the connection with my son a priority. I can break the cycle of parenting techniques that don’t serve me or my family. I could participate as much or as little as made sense for my family...with what I know now - I can make it thru the tough moments with more ease, I can make a repair when things don’t go the way I hoped, and I know my son and I can keep our relationship strong through whatever we face."
Jessica, 1 boy
When are the meetings, and are they recorded?
What is the difference between the 3 program options?
I'm torn between private sessions and this program. Any advice?
What if my son isn't strong-willed?
How can I talk with Rachel? I have questions before I'm ready to commit.
What if only one parent wants to participate, or a co-parent or step parent wants to be included?
I'm a dad. Is this program really for me?
Should I send my son to therapy instead?
What are Rachel's credentials?
What if the timing doesn't work for me?
Does Rachel work directly with kids?
What if I can't afford the program?
How big is the program?
How do I sign up?
Come change the world with me, starting with your son.
Having a more cooperative, connected, and compassionate relationship with your son is possible. It starts with you.
Let's partner together to help you be the parent he needs.
- Rachel
I'M IN. LET'S GET STARTED.